You know you are aging, and not gracefully, when strangers regularly mistake you for your 70 year old father's wife. This began happening about six years ago. So, despite years of objections from Mr.B, I recently chose to wash the gray out of my hair and get a new cut and style. Mr.B has told me I look nice with my new "do". Most of all, I no longer think I look old enough to be my father's wife. From now on if anyone mistakes me for my dad's wife, I'll have to politely suggest they visit an optometrist.